- If you are having difficulty coping with life's demands, we call this "stress." A life without some stress would be boring. Most of us like some challenges, but too much stress creates problems.
- People who are overly stressed often report difficulty concentrating, feelings of worry and fear, a sense that the body is wound up (for example, tense muscles, sweaty palms, and a pounding heart), irritability with others, or exhaustion. Too much stress over a long period of time can put your health at risk.
- If you or someone you know is in an emotional crisis call The Veterans' Crisis Line at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) and press 1 for Veterans.
- Stress management suggestions:
- Problem Solving—Learn problem-solving skills as this can often improve your ability to cope. Your health care team may offer a class or information sessions on problem-solving or you can visit http://www.startmovingforward.org.
- Physical Activity—Take a brisk walk or engage in other physically demanding activities. This may reduce your stress. Regular physical activity is best. See the Be Physically Active Handout.
- Relaxation Training—Learn relaxation and mindfulness can help you manage stress. Daily relaxation may protect you form the impact of stress on your body. You can find self-help books on relaxation at libraries and book stores. Your health care team may offer relaxation or mindfulness training, or you can use the NCP Manage Stress Workbook. In addition, relaxation recordings can be very helpful. There are links to relaxation recordings below, and on the Center for Integrated Healthcare site (http://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/coe/cih-visn2/clinical_resources.asp) as well as on mobile apps such as "PTSD Coach" and "Breathe2Relax".
- Expression—Speak up in respectful ways. Sharing thoughts and feelings in an assertive and respectful manner can sometimes help buffer stress. Ask your health care team for guidance.
- Time Management—List what needs to get done, make plans for addressing items, and stick to the plan. There are several self-help books on time management at libraries and book stores.
- Positive Thinking—Stress is often associated with negative, self-critical thinking. Focus your attention on positive thoughts about yourself, your accomplishments, things you feel proud of or grateful for, etc. It can help to list 3-5 things you feel grateful for each day.
- Pleasant Activities—Make time for fun. Plan regular, enjoyable activities and see if this reduces your stress. The Pleasant Activities Tip Sheet includes ideas for you to consider.
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If you have questions about how to make healthy living changes, please talk with your VA health care team.
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- Stress: When the demands of life are greater than our ability to cope with the demands, this state is commonly called stress. Although the experience of stress varies from one individual to another, stress often affects attention, thoughts, brain activity, and emotion; parts of the body regulated by the autonomic nervous system (heart rate, breathing, palmar sweat, blood pressure, digestion); and the muscular system (typically resulting in muscle tension, and either increased or decreased movement); and hormones (cortisol, norepinephrine, and growth hormone). When stress is chronic, and the body remains in high gear, it can become problematic.
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VA/DOD Clinical Practice Guidelines
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- Davis, M., Eshelman, E.R. & McKay, M. The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, Oakland: New Harbinger;2008.
- Bourne, E. The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook. Oakland: New Harbinger;2010.